So, in the document below the fold is some text from the Obama Change.org site regarding Civil Rights.
One of the things in this document is:
Support Full Civil Unions and Federal Rights for LGBT Couples: Barack Obama supports full civil unions that give same-sex couples legal rights and privileges equal to those of married couples.
Note, the “Civil Union” terminology. Now, as mentioned before I like to think of myself as a pragmatist, so when something essentially says “equal rights” but calls it a Civil Union I can easily support it, especially if one thinks about it as a first step. It’s about “equal rights” right? And “Marriage” has a bit of a pejorative history anyways (being based on religious and legal ownership). So a big YAY, right? right?
Yet, it seems there are some in the LGBT community who automatically bristle at the term CU, seeing it as a “separate but equal” issue. And it does not seem to help when I try and frame “separate but equal” as being an infrastructure policy, separate schools, public spaces, bathrooms etc. CU seems to be a non-starter for some, no matter how it is phrased.
But, I can’t help but think, if the emotionally laded term “marriage” is removed it would make it incredibility easier to achieve those rights.
My query, am I off my rocker for thinking this is a good thing? I am after all a white, het, married, male so I am willing to admit the issue is not as immediate for me as it would be for others.
All responses welcome, but I’d like to especially hear from those within the GLBT community if possible.